Remember that other exciting business I mentioned this morning?
And how I said that life has been a little crazy lately...

That's because...
WE'RE ENGAGED!
Although I was kind of expecting it going into the trip [and apparently so was everyone else who knows us!] I had kind of given up on it happening after the first day or so. And I was ok with that. I was determined to have an great time either way. I guessed that he probably didn't want to travel so far with a precious piece of jewelry and risk losing it or spoiling the surprise. I'd waited three and a half years already. If this wasn't the time, no big deal.
By our last night, I had honestly forgotten all about a proposal. I was giddy from our day of snorkeling and the fun luau we went to that night. I was surprisingly awake, after crashing pretty early the previous nights. [I blame the time difference. And the pina coladas.]
Even after our friends and family had been asking non-stop and hinting at Hawaii, after I had thought for sure it would happen there, he still managed to catch me completely off guard and surprise me.
The proposal was very simple and sweet. Just the two of us in our condo on the last night we were there.
In the end, it was all perfect. The boy. The ring. The proposal. The whole trip. I couldn't ask for more.
It was only 10pm in Maui, so 3am in Texas. Randy told me to just wait for morning, but I couldn't. I called my mom immediately. She was still up! Waiting for my call, she said. But not really. Or was she? Either way, she was thrilled. IS thrilled.
I called my little brother and sister in the morning [they chose to sleep through my 3am phone calls...] and also a few close friends.
We decided to wait and tell Randy's family in person, since we would see them the next weekend. It was a little tricky, but also fun, keeping it a secret from them for a week. It was worth it to be able to tell them in person.
They are so excited for us too! I love that I get a niece and two nephews with this marriage deal, and a couple of big brothers and a sister-in-law too. I adore his whole family already and they have always been so accepting from the first time I met them.
As much as I've been anticipating this and dreaming about my wedding, it's weird to finally BE in wedding planning mode.
We originally wanted to get married this coming spring in Randy's tiny hometown in Kansas.
Until I realized there is no airport anywhere near it.
And hotels are few and far between.
I love the idea of a DIY farm wedding in the middle of nowhere, but that was not going to work for my completely out of town family and all of our friends.
As for a spring wedding...
Enter: Brother with a fully booked spring baseball schedule. Cousins with college final exams in April. Two college graduations in the family in May. And another family wedding in June.
Sooo... July it is.
In Tulsa.
I've toured five venues in the past week, and I'm so excited I think I've found the one! I'm taking Randy to see it on Thursday. I'll share more on that when we know for sure.
I'll try not to overload this blog with too much wedding-related stuff.
But I'm so happy to finally share the news with you guys.
If you do want to check out my wedding inspiration, go
here.
If you have any wedding planning tips or advice I'm all ears! Also any links to great resources or inspiration sites are be much appreciated. Share it all in the comments, my dears.
Fiance! [I'm still getting used to that word!]
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